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funnies'/><title type='text'>Comments on Romance Writing From the Edge: DWTS and First Crushes</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://blog.joannross.com/feeds/5499877563981703782/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html'/><author><name>JoAnn Ross</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03351137721112499077</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='20' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-0k2WDm-o4fU/Tzhl_HqmW3I/AAAAAAAABRM/SHvDZv5lEiE/s220/lavender_lane.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-6938123043868442602</id><published>2009-08-29T15:10:06.766-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T15:10:06.766-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Fabian was my first tweenage crush. Honestly my pa...</title><content type='html'>Fabian was my first tweenage crush. Honestly my parents feared for my sanity at times. I plastered my bedroom walls with his photo cut from numerous movie magazines. Considering I have photos of a couple actors on my office walls, I probably haven&amp;#39;t changed much. LOL</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/6938123043868442602'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/6938123043868442602'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html?showComment=1251573006766#c6938123043868442602' title=''/><author><name>Marie-Nicole Ryan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06704351418597214594</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SpM-TvEKrjs/SbQRxkdlifI/AAAAAAAABVI/Laju27Yd0s4/s1600-R/marie22_(4).jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-5499877563981703782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/posts/default/5499877563981703782' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1508186264'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-1051874520123894257</id><published>2009-08-19T14:14:22.353-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T14:14:22.353-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Michele, I grew up in an small Oregon town, too. K...</title><content type='html'>Michele, I grew up in an small Oregon town, too. K.Falls.  You were lucky your crush was nice to you.  Mine wasn&amp;#39;t rude or anything.  He just sorta acted like a god. Enjoying the attention, obviously, but above us all, so mostly he&amp;#39;d be silent while we all gushed on.  (Or maybe he was just dumb and really didn&amp;#39;t have anything to say.)  LOL &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My sweetie was my true high school crush.  He proposed to me at Depoe Bay, which is pretty much where my Shelter Bay books are going to be set.  It&amp;#39;s a blend of Depoe Bay, Newport, with Cannon Beach&amp;#39;s sea stacks thrown in. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I got out a picture of that day to eventually blog and put on my website, and suddenly realized today that it wasn&amp;#39;t just my bangs that were like Cute Paul&amp;#39;s.  I pretty much -- yikes! -- had his entire mop head hair thing going.  It looks sorta like a bowling ball.  With bangs.  LOL</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/1051874520123894257'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/1051874520123894257'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html?showComment=1250705662353#c1051874520123894257' title=''/><author><name>JoAnn Ross</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03351137721112499077</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='20' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LLGcqMC_AyY/SbkYSVg7e4I/AAAAAAAAAMY/-lwagvgXEJU/S220/breakpoint+cover.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-5499877563981703782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/posts/default/5499877563981703782' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1547129728'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-4922093897442170419</id><published>2009-08-19T13:42:44.437-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T13:42:44.437-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh I look back on my first real big crush and want...</title><content type='html'>Oh I look back on my first real big crush and want to dig a hole and disappear. I was a freshman in high school and he was a junior (I had many little crushes along the way) I use to walk to class a certain way so I could pass him in the hall way when the word got out and it did that I had a crush on him he was I guess nice about it he would say hi to me and I thought that was great, but he never really noticed me and trust me I did everything I just wanted him to ask me out just once. Never happened and looking back I would say I could of been accused of stalking lol I grew up in a small town in Oregon Scappoose everyone knows everyone facebook and myspace has made it easy to reconnect with people and I have talked with him and he is on my friend list I&amp;#39;m grateful that he was nice to methrough the years he could of been a jerk since he knew I liked him. After I met my husband I knew I found my real crush and he liked me back :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/4922093897442170419'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/4922093897442170419'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html?showComment=1250703764437#c4922093897442170419' title=''/><author><name>Michele B</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-5499877563981703782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/posts/default/5499877563981703782' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1135227931'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-4325903057719595169</id><published>2009-08-19T11:49:50.038-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T11:49:50.038-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I wonder if boys get crushes?  My sweetie admits t...</title><content type='html'>I wonder if boys get crushes?  My sweetie admits to one in the 1st grade (I&amp;#39;ve seen her picture and she was darling), but has never mentioned any others.  Which is probably wise.  LOL&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have this feeling my first crush never got past that 8th grade mentality.  I was so tempted to scan his picture out of the year book.  But anyone which such a decided lack of class just might decide to sue.  And wow, he sure wouldn&amp;#39;t be worth the nuisance!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/4325903057719595169'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/4325903057719595169'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html?showComment=1250696990038#c4325903057719595169' title=''/><author><name>JoAnn Ross</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03351137721112499077</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='20' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LLGcqMC_AyY/SbkYSVg7e4I/AAAAAAAAAMY/-lwagvgXEJU/S220/breakpoint+cover.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-5499877563981703782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/posts/default/5499877563981703782' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1547129728'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-7436379380327602731</id><published>2009-08-19T11:25:58.695-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-19T11:25:58.695-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I hear you on the first crushes. I look back at so...</title><content type='html'>I hear you on the first crushes. I look back at some of my first crushes and literally thank God nothing came of those!!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My first two big celebrity crushes were Ralph Macchio (The Karate Kid) and Donnie Wahlberg (New Kids on the Block). I guess that gives away my age huh? LOL&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your first crush insulted you, then asked for a book?!  Classy!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/7436379380327602731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/5499877563981703782/comments/default/7436379380327602731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html?showComment=1250695558695#c7436379380327602731' title=''/><author><name>Mayberry Mom</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06538902832996197236</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_n4Fo8rCMYqY/ShDtEIBsKVI/AAAAAAAAACQ/ehwxGyK6tdQ/S220/halfbooks.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.joannross.com/2009/08/dwts-and-first-crushes.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7503318522763027176.post-5499877563981703782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7503318522763027176/posts/default/5499877563981703782' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-174413971'/></entry></feed>
